| The Poop Scoop . . . Why it was invented and how to use it. |
| © Ferna Lary Mills |
| Did you ever wonder what events led up to the creation of new inventions or ideas? I imagine that fire was invented because someone was tired of sushi; shoes were made because someone was tired of picking stickers from their feet; and socks were made because they were tired of the way their shoes smelled. But what about the perverse mind that invented the Poop Scoop? Think about that for a minute. Someone took the time to create a utensil that would actually PICK UP POOP! My biggest question is, "WHY?" It makes sense. Really. Someone wanted to MOVE THE POOP. For whatever reasons (we can certainly assume), the poop was something that needed moved - or removed. What is your poop? We all have things in our life that need to be moved - or removed. For ome of us, it's physical. Maybe it's time we cleaned house and tackled that old box of junque in the attic. For others, maybe it's the emotional garbage that we're carrying, like old hurts, bitter feelings, hidden anger and frustration, or unwarranted fears. Whether physical or emotional, it's time to build our own "poop scoop". Part of getting on with life after loss is in putting that life back into perspective. After all, it's a new life - not necessarily better or worse, but changed. New in the sense that it's unfamiliar to us, like an unfamiliar highway we've never traveled. And the best way to get on with that life, is to first move - or remove all the "poop". What do you do with it? I'm not saying a loved ones cherished belongings are all poop. I use the term loosely to signify anything that may be an obstacle to getting on with your new life. If it causes you to dwell longer in your grief, it is something that needs moved - or removed. Worshipping your loved ones belongings as gods or creating mausoleums out of their old rooms won't bring your loved one back. This doesn't mean you should get rid of everything. Just don't worship the things they left behind. Keep the memories and the mementos. Put a few things where you can see them if those memories can bring you joy. But move or remove the rest of it. Move it to a chest or closet, or remove it completely, whichever you are most comfortable doing. What about mental poop? Cleaning up emotional baggage is like cleaning house on the inside of the heart, except Lysol and Clorox won't help. If your "poop" is emotional, it may require more work. It may mean that your "poop scoop" may be found in Christian counseling. It takes a skilled professional to lead you down the road to healing, and preferably one with a Christian background so you know you are receiving the counseling that God would want you to hear. Another great resource may simply be a support group found in a church in your area. There's no shame in needing emotional support or counseling. Especially considering the emotional roller coaster you've been riding through grief. The shame is in needing it and NOT seeking it, letting that emotional "poop" grow and build until you are too emotionally crippled to live this new life you now face. Now what? Once you've "cleaned house", it's time to get re-acquainted. Spend some time getting to know the new YOU. Discover new things, learn new hobbies, venture out into new areas of your life. There's a whole new world waiting for you and although it's scary at first, God will never leave your side, and will never lead you where He cannot protect you. Enjoy the journey! |
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